26 influence rules I'm following into 2026


I’ve spent the last few years studying how influence actually works inside organizations, especially among engineers, ICs, and systems thinkers.

Not the loud kind. Not the political kind. Not the manipulative kind.

The kind that compounds quietly.

Below are 26 influence rules I’m following going into 2026 and beyond.

Principles for building credibility, trust, and authority without losing yourself in the process.


  1. Avoid unforced credibility errors. Most influence is lost through small, preventable mistakes. Speaking without context. Sloppy follow-through. Emotional reactions. Slow down. Protect your credibility from yourself.
  2. Never tie self-worth to your title. Roles change. Reputation compounds. Anchor your confidence in judgment and consistency, not hierarchy.
  3. Track influence like performance, not popularity. Who seeks your input early? Whose ideas shape decisions? Influence leaves signals if you pay attention.
  4. Increase your Margin of Influence. Create a buffer between what you know and what you need to prove. Slack creates calm. Calm creates authority.
  5. Focus on Value, Impact, & Service > Visibility. Influence is a lagging indicator of usefulness. Solve real problems and attention will follow.
  6. Treat capability as the leverage point, not politics. The return on better judgment and deeper skill dwarfs internal maneuvering. Invest in your capability relentlessly.
  7. Pay more for clarity, not prestige. Clear thinking and clean communication save more time than status ever will.
  8. Fade default career scripts. Next level is not always progress. Choose paths that fit your strengths, not expectations.
  9. Authority is a tool, not an identity. Use it sparingly. Judgment earns trust faster than power ever will.
  10. Use a 24-hour rule before public opinions. Most credibility damage comes from reacting too fast. Silence is often the stronger move.
  11. Remember influence takes time, not just insight. Being right once doesn’t build trust. Consistency does.
  12. Optimize for non-obvious returns. Some efforts pay in learning, access, or optionality. Early on, these matter more than recognition.
  13. Never hesitate to invest in yourself. Skills, health, communication, and thinking quality compound across every role you’ll ever have.
  14. Don’t optimize the humanity out of your work. Some friction creates meaning and trust. Remove noise, not depth.
  15. Create alignment check-ins, not status updates. Most breakdowns aren’t technical. They’re contextual. Shared understanding prevents politics.
  16. Expand your decision surface area. Influence grows when your decisions affect multiple systems, not just your own lane.
  17. Build a credibility reserve. Consistent delivery creates room to challenge assumptions when it actually matters.
  18. Run failure simulations. People trust those who think through second-order effects before things break.
  19. Don’t waste energy on small games. Save your effort for decisions that compound. Precision only matters where it counts.
  20. Use the "would I say this privately" test. If it doesn’t pass one-to-one, it doesn’t belong in public.
  21. Take a barbell approach to risk. Be conservative where failure is catastrophic. Be bold where it’s recoverable.
  22. Ruthlessly eliminate complexity. Complex systems fail quietly until they don’t. Simplicity creates reliability and trust.
  23. Automate the trivial. Free your attention from low-value decisions so you can think deeply about the important ones.
  24. Audit commitments quarterly. Old promises quietly drain authority. Make sure your yes still means something.
  25. Be generous with credit. Recognition compounds influence faster than self-promotion ever will.
  26. Use influence to build better systems, not bigger egos. The highest form of influence leaves things better without needing you present.

Influence is a byproduct of how you think, decide, and show up over time.

As you head into 2026, remember this:

Credibility compounds.

Clarity compounds.

Character compounds.

And the engineers who understand that will quietly shape what happens next.

The Modern Engineer

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